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Tuesday, February 5, 2019

10 TIPS To Overcome Laziness

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Tips To Stop Being Lazy      It happens to all of us. Sometimes, we just don't feel like doing anything, be it work, chores, or whatever… it's easier to chill out, relax, and forget about responsibilities. But what if this turns into a habit, and things start to pile up? Laziness can have a negative effect on both your personal and professional life. If it seems like you've slipped into a lazy cycle and you’re being unproductive, you should consider the following tips to get your life back on track!
 1 - Make Sure You're Not Overwhelmed 
    Sometimes, we have so much to do, that we just get overwhelmed, and then we end up doing nothing. It’s necessary to own realistic expectations regarding what you’re really ready to accomplish. If you have too much on your plate and no idea how you're gonna get it all done, you may just be overwhelmed, and not necessarily lazy.
2 - Get Motivated 
    Most of the time, laziness is due to a lack of motivation. Try to inspire yourself by thinking about the importance of whatever it's you wish to try and do. And if it's hard for you to stay motivated, here’s something you can try… Make a list of key points or reasons that you can reference when you need an extra push.
3 - Value Your Time
    Make the time you spend working on your tasks productive. Look at your to-do list and prioritize. This will make it harder for deadlines to sneak up on you, and easier to work productively - even if it's in short bursts.
 4 - Think About The Benefits
    Focusing on the difficulties of carrying out a task, leads to discouragement, avoidance of taking action, and laziness. Instead of thinking about the difficulties or obstacles, think about the benefits you will gain once you start taking action. When you concentrate on advantages and goals, productivity becomes much more rewarding. Learn the worth of every task and so work towards it.
 5 - Think About The Consequences
    Think about what will happen if you don't get your task or chore done. In most cases, merely considering the results of not acting, can push you to take action!
6 - Switch Things Up
     If you tend to leave the most complicated or tough tasks for last, switch it up, and begin doing those things first. You don't want to spread yourself too thin. Pick one or two things to focus on and fully devote yourself to working on those tasks. Remember, you have to work to reach your goal; it's not going to happen right away.
 7 - Track Your Progress
     Sticking to new changes can be challenging. Tracking results is an effective way to help make new habits stick. If you can see that ‘holding yourself accountable’ is helping you reach your goal, it will be much easier to keep up.

ALSO, READ: Never put off for tomorrow, What you can do today.

8 - Schedule Break Times
     You need to take an occasional break, but make sure that time is limited, so you don't lose momentum. For example, you could commit to working on your tasks for the first 45 minutes of every hour and then take a 15-minute break.
 9 - Look For Alternatives
     Is there a better, or more efficient way to do things? Think of ways you can be more effective. You’ll find that the more you streamline, automate, delegate, and outsource, the more you’ll get done with the same level of effort.
10 - Take Some Time Off
    Perhaps you're just too tired… With work, school, and all other stresses of everyday life, it can get pretty difficult to wake up early, exercise, get chores done, and do whatever else you need to do. It's easy to fall behind once you feel exhausted. If you're feeling such as you got to take a bit time to recharge, then take it!
     No one is immune to occasional laziness. However, it's how you deal with it and motivate yourself that can keep you on the right track. Everyone has a growing to-do list, and it can sometimes feel overwhelming. Overcoming laziness is achieved through a series of daily actions and activities - by choosing to act, instead of remaining passive. And every time you choose to act, you increase your ability to win, achieve goals and improve your life. So start right now! Develop the self-discipline you need, and get your works done!
     Did you find these tips helpful? How do YOU deal with laziness? Don’t be lazy! Please comment below. Thank You


Friday, January 25, 2019

Personality Development Tips

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 What is personality? I think it's an inside-out thing and in general, I would say it's a composite of your thoughts your feelings and your actions and all of these can be improved on many levels.
     Being a human being, you need to understand that besides attaining your personal goals, dealing with others and coping with situations in life as they happen is also very important. Personality development refers to a process whereby you increase your efficiency and enhance yourself as a person achieving success in all your endeavors. There are some very good Personality Development Tips to help you improve as a person and achieve a lot more than you actually have. Remember, it is an ongoing process and never ends, and so these 8 amazing Personality Development Tips need to adhere to no matter at what stage of your career or life you are in.

1. Keep flashing a sunny smile- People underestimate the significance of a bright smile and keep a frown on their face. A smile conveys a positive signal to others and you are perceived as a warm person ready to accept others. People find it easy to work and interact with you.
2. Experience Diverse Things- Doing a lot of things widens your horizons and perspective. It also helps in developing people skills, which is one of the many important Personality Development Tips.
3. Practice and adopt a more optimistic outlook on life.- Nobody likes being around somebody who's pessimistic, always talking about the negative, ever looking at the good and anything right. Well, this is something that you have to change. If you are persistently and consistently talking about negative things, acknowledge that you're doing it and then work on developing a more positive outlook all. Sometimes simply look at it things a little bit differently can make all the difference in the world .
4.Say Thank You- People appreciate you when they know that you remember their efforts. Being social helps in myriad ways and you will be surprised how others are more than ready to help you when you are in distress.
5. Be Responsible- Do not always crib about things and other people. Do not blame others for your failures and take responsibility for your actions. This is one of those Personality Development Tips that lets others perceive you as a reliable person. Take responsibility for your actions, your thoughts your feelings and that will definitely improve your personality and people will admire you for it. They might not like everything you're doing, but you will get involved in the end.
6. Have the ability to laugh at yourself. - This is easier said than done and until you actually have a secure sense of self and feel good about who you are and comfortable in your own skin ,you're probably not going to be able to do that . it's something that I feel people with good personalities have in common
7. Do things  every day to facilitate and develop your confidence. -When you feel good about who you are, your confidence will increase. You're going to be like oh I feel great about myself and that is going to transition and transcend every aspect of your life including your personality.
8. Be grateful always -Get into a state of continuous gratitude because that is also a highly spiritual stage where you're attracting good to you. So practice being grateful for anything and everything. start out early in the morning. Just as you take your first breath in the morning be grateful for that you're actually breathing.
      Personality Development Tips are for everyone and not just for those facing this or the other problem in their lives. You will be surprised at how just a little effort on your part by making use of these Personality Development Tips you can bring about a world of difference in the quality of your life, not to mention the success that you will achieve.

Friday, December 28, 2018

Steps to Discover Your Life Purpose and Gain Self Confidence

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        “The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for.” 
         Discovering your life purpose is not an easy process. Ask someone what their purpose in life is, what do you think you will receive as an answer? Possibly a fuzzy list of goals or maybe responsibilities, for example, to be the best parent; be an honest person; be a true friend. Although these are important, who doesn’t want to be the best parent, or an honest person or be a true friend? What you want and need is a specific, defined purpose for your life, a purpose which you are passionate about, a purpose which helps you to understand that you are living for something bigger than yourself. To accomplish this, you need to move beyond this “fuzzy” list of goals.
          Do you think you can succeed as a wandering generality or do you need to become a meaningful specific? In the book “Over the Top”, Zig Ziglar thinks you need to become the meaningful specific. Are you really ready to go? If so, it’s time to get very detailed regarding your purpose here in this life. To get started, these strategies may help you to find your life purpose and gain self-confidence.

Find the purpose .. your life, your purpose.

        There is so much noise going on in your mind and around you, you are unable to hear the internal dialogue of the important things. You must let go of all this noise in order to find your purpose and hear the really important dialogue. It’s not to say that what’s going on in the outside is not important. But other people give us so many opinions, requests and suggestions about how things should be, we do not even try to hear our own dialogue or consider what is important to us. It’s your life and your purpose, make the effort to consult with the most important person, yourself.
        Your growth spiritually and personally is your responsibility. Many people may be telling what you should and should not do with your life, but it is not anyone else’s responsibility, again,, it is your life, your purpose. Filter these other things out by creating “selective ignorance”, Once you do this, your focus can move to the skill needed to help find your purpose. As you take on this responsibility, you will gain self-confidence.

Start to hear your internal dialogue
        The one critical step is to start creating self-awareness. Find YOUR specific purpose. Begin by listening to yourself. To help cut out all the other noise, you should begin by keeping a daily journal of your thoughts. Benjamin Franklin, the great inventor, said: “If you’re not to be forgotten when you’re dead and rotten, either do things worth writing about or write things worth reading about.” Many great men and women in history invested the time to write in their daily journals, keeping track of their thoughts and reflections. There is no question, these actions had an impact on their self-confidence and achievements.
     Writing can clarify the multitude of thoughts going around in your head all day long. Writing focuses your mind to bring about this clarity.
      In addition to writing your thoughts down, ask yourself questions which relate to your purpose and write down these answers. For instance: “What do I want to be remembered for? “ and “Before I die, what are the things I want to complete?… By asking these questions you are developing a new skill. The skill is interpreting your thoughts and listening to your inner dialogue. Your answers will start to become clear and detailed, creating your purpose.

You will find Your Life Purpose By Beginning the Journey

        Don’t wait for the inspiration to come to you, go after it.  Your mind needs some help. Begin feeding it materials which will help you further understand your own desires. Someone has walked before you and has done something similar.
        Give yourself time and opportunity to become a reader ( audiobooks, podcasts, and videos work) and researcher of the subjects you’re interested in. Along with your journaling, you will succeed in finding your life purpose. You will gain self-confidence at each step in this process. Taking responsibility and taking action will increase your self-confidence.
 I hope you like this article. Please share your thoughts and experiences on improving self-confidence and discovering your life purpose

Thank You..


Saturday, September 15, 2018

Tips To Getting Things Done With Others Through Mutual Trust And Understanding


   Mutual Trust

    Mutual trust is the basic ingredient of all honest and effective human relationships. The husband and wife, the employer and employee, the customer and salesperson, the student and teacher, and members of the same team must be fastened with the bond of mutual trust or the relationship becomes ineffective.
    Mutual trust is not always easy to adopt. The other person may be disagreeable, unfriendly, unlikable, a rival, or do things which you oppose.It may require an extra measure of mental discipline to ignore the other person’s negative characteristics and identify the real person, the person of ability and basic goodness. You may be hurt occasionally by individuals who violate the trust placed in them.
"Leadership without mutual trust is a contradiction in terms."
Stephen Covey
    But the benefits of mutual trust is far outweigh the small number of incidents in which it proves difficult or a disadvantage.
  Mutual trust means each person having trust in the other. If you want to achieve this relationship with others then it must begin with you. You must be basically honest. Honesty crops out into sincerity. And sincerity is the mold for mutual trust. 
    Doctors must have sincerity to instill confidence in their patients; lawyers must have it to create rapport with clients; executives must have it to inspire employees; salespeople must have it to persuade customers to buy; great politicians have attracted votes with it. 
   Sincere people are those who have ideals, values, beliefs and conform to them. They project these characteristics to others.


Make it Easy for People to Work with You

    People are more effective, more energetic, when working with others they like. So you will get what you want out of life only if you are able to get along with people. Getting along with others means that they like you and will do things for you. In other words, they react positively to your personality. Your personality is nothing more nor less than your attitudes in action. It is the way you communicate your thoughts about others and yourself. Here are some tips  to make your personality pleasing, one that creates positive reactions in others:

1.. To have a friend, be one.
2. The greatest hunger that people have is to be needed, wanted, and loved. Help satisfy , those feelings in others. 
3. Don’t try to impress others. Let them impress you.
 4. Be kind to people. You can’t always love them, but you can be kind to them.
 5. Learn to like yourself. Others will respond to you the way you respond to yourself. 
6. Be enthusiastic. Nothing significant was ever achieved without enthusiasm-including deep, rich human relationships. 
7. Be positive. Positive people attract others; negative people repel others. 
8. Do things to make people feel important. Write a letter. Give a compliment. Say, “Thank you.” Praise. Encourage. Support. Cooperate. 
9. Sticking up for your “rights” is great, but do you always have to be right? Letting the other person be right once in a while will keep friendships warm. 
10. Be a good listener. You can have a greater effect on others by the way that you listen rather than by the way that you talk. 
11. Unless you can say something worthy about a person, say nothing. 
12. Call a person by name. Use it often in your conversation. 
13. Smile. Be pleasant. Talk about the brighter things in life. 
14. Avoid arguments. 
15. If you’re going to make fun of someone, make sure it’s you. 
16. Help people like themselves. The greatest compliment someone can give you is to say, “I like myself better when I’m with you.” 
17. Be genuinely interested in others. Get them to talk about themselves. Ask for their opinions, ideas, view points.


Admit Your Mistakes

      If you know the other person will admit being wrong, you feel more secure in that relationship. You have more trust in that person. Others will feel the same way about you if they know you are honest enough to admit it when you’re wrong.
     These words are wondrously refreshing and too little heard: “I made a mistake.” “I am wrong.”
“I admit I was in error.”
      What a rare quality that is in people! Especially if the admission was made about something that would not otherwise be noticed.

    Try saying to your family when you’re on the losing end of a discussion, “You are right and I am wrong!” 
    Step forward on your job and say, “I have made an error. I would like your advice and help to correct it!” 
    Try saying to your customer, “I don’t know,” or “This mistake is mine.” Don’t shift it on to the factory, the billing department, or that poor secretary trying to read your orders. 

Friday, July 13, 2018

"Failure is an event, never a person.” — William D. Brown

       Everyone hates to fail, but for some people, failing presents such a significant psychological threat their motivation to avoid failure exceeds their motivation to succeed. This fear of failure causes them to unconsciously sabotage their chances of success, in a variety of ways.

Wednesday, February 21, 2018

“Let us cultivate our garden.” ― Voltaire, Candide

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    We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we contribute to our own, as well as the happiness of others.Having a pleasant,engaging personality is significantly related to Emotional Intelligence (EI or EQ). Those of us possessing high EI invariably have great personalities.
   The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.When we say that someone has a "good personality" we mean that they are likable, interesting and pleasant to be with.Everyone wants to be attractive to others. To that end, having a good personality is vital - probably even more so than good looks.
  While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want. 

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Never put off for tomorrow, what you can do today

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Procrastination means delaying work or several tasks for a later time.           Everyone procrastinates. Sometimes it’s fun to procrastinate. Sometimes waiting until just before a deadline is very motivating. And sometimes procrastination is even necessary—as a way to put off a dreaded task until we feel more energetic, prepared, or able to do it.
But sooner or later, chronic procrastinating will begin to hamper job performance. It will also affect our mood and state of mind by generating worry, fear, or added stress. Perhaps most serious for people in a leadership position, procrastinating may cause our peers and employees to feel that we’re holding up progress.
      If procrastination has become a problem for you—and you know who you try these to change your behavior so you can be more productive. An added benefit is that you’ll feel more upbeat, less worried and stressed, and more confident about your reputation and effectiveness.
 Put it in writing.
 Write down the task you’ve been putting off. Doing this brings the project to the front of your mind so you can’t easily ignore it.

Monday, August 28, 2017


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       There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be.That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down.But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself.
 Exercise          Exercise in almost any form can act as a stress reliever. It won’t make your stress disappear but being active can definitely boost your feel good endorphin and take you away from your daily worries. So be it a 40 minutes of brisk walking, yoga , aerobics or some laps in the pool you will find that you have forgotten the day’s irritation and concentrating on your body. The results are – energy, optimism, calm mind and fit body.
 Connect with people
       A problem shared is a problem halved. A good support network of colleagues, friends and family can ease your work troubles and help you see in a different way. If you don’t connect with people, you won’t have support to turn to when you need help. The activities we do with friends help us relax and we often have a good laugh with them., which is an excellent stress reliever And may be your friends or collegues can also help you out with some solutions to your problems.